HUGE DILEMMA
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[Oct 25,2003 1:39am - MyDeadDoll ""]
OK, so I really wanna take a trip somewhere by myself to meet new people and see new things and to prove to myself that I can be a grown up. But, my parents hate me and would never let me leave. They get pissed when I drive an hour and a half to see a show in Phx. I wanna say fuck it and just go somewhere, but I'm afraid of the consequences I'll have to deal with when I get back. Plus, the other half of my has-gone-no-where-in-four-years-relationship sides with my parents on everything... he's like my mom when i'm away from mom and I hate it. I couldn't even go to the college I wanted 'cos my parnets keep a tight leash (yeah, i'm 22 and i've never been away from home for more than 5 days... sick, huh?)... Anywhoo... Should I say fuck it, book a trip and go? I need to get away from here and do my own thing. Plus, you all here seem pretty fun and neat-oh, so maybe I can come and visit and you can see what a big dork I am. TeeHeeHee So, I need some opinions here.
[Oct 25,2003 2:01am - thegreatspaldino ""]
you should takle a trip... TO HELL! MUAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!>:]>:]>:]
[Oct 25,2003 2:04am - MyDeadDoll ""]
I'm aleady in hell... it's October and 100 degrees out....
[Oct 25,2003 2:08am - thegreatspaldino ""]
hmmm... perhaps... you should go to a carpathian forest and hang out with all the tr00 black metal d00dz0rz... they will sacrifice you in the name of baphomet at midnight on the northern most point of the most grim and frostbitten fjord of xjaishtasfgatyhhh
[Oct 25,2003 2:17am - MyDeadDoll ""]
lame
[Oct 25,2003 2:28am - thegreatspaldino ""]
isnt it? :D
[Oct 25,2003 2:29am - MyDeadDoll ""]
i have to admit that the word "fjord" is funny
[Oct 25,2003 2:30am - thegreatspaldino ""]
norway has plenty of fjords
[Oct 25,2003 2:33am - DeOdiumMortis ""]
fjordna.
Girls have fjordnas.
[Oct 25,2003 2:51am - MyDeadDoll ""]
DeOdiumMortis said:fjordna.
Girls have fjordnas.
we do?
[Oct 25,2003 3:12am - succubus ""]
lol
actually that DOES sound a lot like an italian word for a girl body part ..only it's not a "nice" way of saying it heh
[Oct 25,2003 6:58am - Lynneaus ""]
eh my parents were kinda the same way... tho not that drastic....
when i was 19 i just said fuck it and told them i already had a bus ticket to toronto and i was staying with friends... they had a "discussion" (tho i was gonna go no matter what) and decided to let me go...
i go places all the time... i just got back from drivin to and from toronto this past week.... with some common courtesy (calling when i get there calling when i get home, etc) they have become a lot more relaxed...
id say sit down with ur family and talk to em... *shrug*
[Oct 25,2003 2:49pm - the_reverend ""]
I'd say fuck it and just do it.
If I worried about what people though when I did things... I'd be worried about shit all the time and not get anything done.
[Oct 25,2003 4:21pm - retzam ""]
Am I the only one here who thinks it is utterly insane that you are 22 and still following your parents rules? Fucking leave. Just leave, it doesn't matter if you tell them or not, just do it. They havn't been legally responsible for you for 4 years man!
[Oct 25,2003 4:43pm - thornnvine ""]
you better take a long trip soon or you'll end up like that postman on cheers what was his name ? oh, my mind just went blank.....shit
[Oct 25,2003 4:46pm - thornnvine ""]
CLIFF! you'll end up like cliff!!!!!!!!!!! :ralphie:
[Oct 25,2003 4:53pm - succubus ""]
hmmm well my parents were strict and i still managed to do what i wanted
i say go for it..do whatever YOU want to do as long as it makes you happy and you are not hurting them...let your parents grow....realize you are mature etc.
once you get to whereever you want to go, call them...tell them you are ok...and then if they start yelling..tell them..listen...i still called...talk to you later...i dunno
just do it
[Oct 25,2003 4:54pm - retzam ""]
thornnvine said:CLIFF! you'll end up like cliff!!!!!!!!!!! :ralphie:
Didnt he die at some point?
[Oct 25,2003 5:00pm - the_reverend ""]
just go in to shit-eating porno.
that'll teach 'em
[Oct 25,2003 5:03pm - retzam ""]
the_reverend said:just go in to shit-eating porno.
that'll teach 'em
I tried that and all it did was get me kicked out of school.