Who else has had a falling out with family?[views:2755][posts:26]_______________________________________ [Nov 15,2008 11:45pm - SkinSandwich ""] Tonight was the final bullshit with me and my family that has been brewing for five plus years. I'll spare the details, but fuck these people. Two out of three of my brothers and my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care at this point. It is actually kind of liberating to have them out of my life. Anyone else ever get to this point with blood related useless fuckers? |
| ___________________________________________ [Nov 15,2008 11:47pm - DaveFromTheGrave ""] I have an older sister who I never talk to. She bought a house a year ago and it's right down the street from mine, but I have never been there. |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 15,2008 11:49pm - SkinSandwich ""] I take it you can't stand her. You must see her from time to time though being that close. Spit on her. |
| _____________________________________________ [Nov 15,2008 11:50pm - todayistheday nli ""] yep. we hate pretty much everyone on my mothers side |
| ______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 12:27am - AUTOPSY_666 ""] SkinSandwich said:my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care Harsh. |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 11:40am - SkinSandwich ""] AUTOPSY_666 said: SkinSandwich said:my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care Harsh. Not really cosidering I had kidney failure back in May, and died, was revived, and then in a coma for two days. Found out that cunt and my "brothers" were hoping I would not pull through. That is a bit harsher. |
| ___________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 12:41pm - rotivore ""] SkinSandwich said:Tonight was the final bullshit with me and my family that has been brewing for five plus years. I'll spare the details, but fuck these people. Two out of three of my brothers and my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care at this point. It is actually kind of liberating to have them out of my life. Anyone else ever get to this point with blood related useless fuckers?your metalhead mentality is now complete.........abandonment of family is one of the five laws of a true metalhead |
| __________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 12:45pm - shannon ""] I found comfort in this thread,my immediate family is scum. |
| ______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 12:45pm - secthammer ""] my dad's side is completely evangelical christian, needless to say, i avoid them like the disease they are |
| ______________________________ [Nov 16,2008 1:17pm - Lamp ""] I get along better with my family now that I live 700 miles away from them. |
| ___________________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 1:36pm - Mike_Giallo(nli) ""] I've been pretty much shunned from my parents due to arrests and overdoses. Finally moved out and now never talk to them. Still really close to my brother, sister, nieces, and nephews though. |
| ______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 3:16pm - SkinSandwich ""] rotivore said: SkinSandwich said:Tonight was the final bullshit with me and my family that has been brewing for five plus years. I'll spare the details, but fuck these people. Two out of three of my brothers and my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care at this point. It is actually kind of liberating to have them out of my life. Anyone else ever get to this point with blood related useless fuckers?your metalhead mentality is now complete.........abandonment of family is one of the five laws of a true metalhead Why do I suddenly feel like Darth Vader? |
| ___________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 4:37pm - dreadkill ""] SkinSandwich said: AUTOPSY_666 said: SkinSandwich said:my mentally ill mom can all die for all I care Harsh. Not really cosidering I had kidney failure back in May, and died, was revived, and then in a coma for two days. Found out that cunt and my "brothers" were hoping I would not pull through. That is a bit harsher. that sucks, man. sorry to hear your family treats you like that. |
| _______________________________ [Nov 16,2008 7:50pm - yummy ""] My family is something I will always have. Even when I'm not around. |
| __________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 8:46pm - Dankill ""] My family is fairly tight, but in typical Irish fashion has a revolving door for drama. Someone has to fuck up and cause a problem at some point. The only sticking point has been the second youngest cousin. She's 17 now, but back when she was 14 managed to steal her 21 year old cousin's (from the other side of her family, not mine) boyfriend and start bangin' him. He was also 21. It caused a lot of bullshit, but due to her parents phoning it in, much to the dismay of her older sister, it kept on rolling. It became the elephant in the room and a large part of both sides of her family now do not like her and think she's a whore. The only reason you'll see pictures of them together now on myspace is only because she just turned 17. I stopped caring about a year ago. Otherwise, everyone is peachy. Oh and no one talks to my grandfather on my dad's side because he's a cold hearted bastard that beat his wife and kids. |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 8:55pm - y_ddraig_goch ""] i love my family, what's left of it. wish we all lived in the same city, it's lonely as fuck living on your own with no relatives left in your city. closest family is an hour away. raised by my grandfather, no dads for any of my mom's children...my youngest sister was lucky and was nine when her dad left our mom. I usually hate the men that come into my family from time to time, most of my moms boyfriends have been dicks. but the new one she has is pretty cool. and his parents are millionaires. but he gets nothing of it until they die. family is one of those things i will stress to my children. I really do want something similar to what i had early in life but only with my kids actually having a father figure. i hope when i'm a grandfather i'll have a big enough house that maybe i can keep one of kids to take care of me and some grandkids to entertain me til i die. |
| __________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 8:58pm - succubus ""] i am close to my family..when my dad died...a fgirl who lived on my street gave her condolences and said it should have been her dead beat dad who raped her and not mine who was always the caring person etc etc. life sucks i'm sorry to hear about your family. i will say this though...i have a big family and there was jealousy and crap..after my died passed it put things into perspective and people who hadn't spoken to each other...forgave each other. |
| ______________________________ [Nov 16,2008 9:07pm - Lamp ""] My dad didn't go to his dad's funeral. I don't think either of his sisters did either but I could be wrong. The guy died in 2007 I believe. I hadn't seen him in at least six years before then. The last time I'd seen him before that was probably around the time my sister was born in 1990. That's the only "black sheep" incident I can really think of in my family. The comment about getting along with people better since I moved away mainly refers to my parents and sister. I also think if I moved back and was to live with them like before, then I would also continue to get along with them better. |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 9:22pm - y_ddraig_goch ""] succubus said: i will say this though...i have a big family and there was jealousy and crap..after my died passed it put things into perspective and people who hadn't spoken to each other...forgave each other. I fucking hate it that my family only ever gets together when someone dies. i only see my grandfather's brothers and sisters when one of them dies hahaha |
| __________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 9:27pm - grizloch ""] my family rules, but its probably more a reflection of my own perfection than of their being laid back, honestly, I'm the bee's knees and there is no drama in my immediate family, coincidence? |
| ___________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 9:40pm - dreadkill ""] succubus said: i will say this though...i have a big family and there was jealousy and crap..after my died passed it put things into perspective and people who hadn't spoken to each other...forgave each other. that happened in my family after my grandfather died. i wish it could've happened when he was alive. |
| __________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 9:44pm - succubus ""] Exactly Y ddraig and dreadkill kinda irked me that stuff didn't happen BEFORE |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 10:14pm - the_reverend ""] like my dad told me my entire childhood "you only have one brother." now he doesn't talk to his one brother. |
| _______________________________________ [Nov 16,2008 10:15pm - the_reverend ""] and another aunt disowned the family until her son died |
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| ______________________________ [Nov 17,2008 7:28am - Yeti ""] thank you. i am going to have that stuck in my head all day. that rules. i've never really had any major falling outs in my family, but my uncle did abandon his family because he was a lazy fucking scumbag and didn't even give a shit about his kids never mind the rest of his family. i really liked him, but he decided he didn't want anything to do with anyone so he moved to Florida about 12 years ago. then he shot himself this past June and, well, that was that. kind of ironic how the only way anyone in his family could get him to come up to MA was through UPS. he's better off dead. |
| ______________________________________ [Nov 17,2008 8:09am - SkinSandwich ""] Bitter would be an understatement for me. When I woke up out of the coma I asked where my kids were right away. They told me my mother had them. i turned beet red and pulled all of the tubes out of my arms and legs. The worst one was the one out of my dick! I stole a set of scrubs as they ripped up my clothes and walked 4 miles to bail them out away from that bitch. The hospital fucked up and used the wrong emergency contact form. I was disorientated, and could have died the docs told me if I left to early. i must have been a sight walking up main street high and hurting in scrubs. I got them back, and my mom was excited to get rid of them. What a piece of trash. The doctors and nurses were really stressing me not to leave for they feared I would die, but there was no way I was going to leave them there with her. |